During these times of changing guidelines and uncertainty, it is only natural for us to experience some anxiety. As caregivers, it’s imperative that we also consider the changes and stress effecting our youngsters; especially those who are too young to completely understand the seriousness of COVID-19.
Although it may be difficult, caregivers are encouraged to shield younger children from news reports to decrease the possibility of frightening young children. We need to reassure our children and answer their questions, offering simple and age appropriate answers.
Here are some ways to respond to common questions from young children:
*Why can’t I play with my friends?
You can’t play with your friends right now because everyone needs to take a break from each other so that we’re all healthy.
*Is that man a bad man – wearing the mask?
No, we also have to wear masks. When we wear masks, we keep germs away from each other. We’re protecting other people because we care about them.
*Why can’t we play with other kids at the park or at the beach?
There are rules right now asking that people/families stay far apart so that we can all stay healthy and not get sick. It won’t last forever. We will all play together again when it is safe.
*When can I see Grandma and Grampa?
Right now we are only talking to Gramma and Grampa on the computer or phone. We want to make sure that we all stay healthy. As soon as we’re sure it’s safe for all of us, we’ll be able to see them and give them the biggest hug EVER. For now though, why don’t we give them a call?
Although this is a short list of questions, you may already have noticed how simple and direct the answers are without offering too much information that might scare or worry children. As caregivers, it’s our job to assure children that they are safe, loved, and their world will continue. Answering their questions and shielding them from adult conversations will provide them the security they need right now.
For support, call the Vermont Parent's Helpline at 1-800-CHILDREN. We care about you and your kids!
Thank you for all you do to keep our communities safe!
Sincerely,
PCAVT’s Shaken Baby Syndrome/Abusive Head Trauma Prevention Program