Children always look forward to Halloween – costumes and candy! Making sure your children enjoy this holiday can be as simple as keeping in mind what activities and costumes are age appropriate and be sure that treats are safe. Know what size candy is safe for your little one to chew and swallow without being a choking hazard, and how much sugar is enough.
Here are some things to consider for a safe and appropriate Halloween for each age:
2 years of age
Children at this age are just beginning to develop their imagination; however, telling the difference between reality and fantasy is unlikely. Remind your children what is pretend and use examples such as “playing dress up”. Let them help decide on their costume, limit candy intake and try to complete your festivities before their regular bedtime – keeping as close to their schedule as possible.
When choosing costumes make sure they don’t interfere with their eyesight or airways. Always look through the candy they receive while trick or treating and remove all treats that could be choking hazards.
3-5 years of age
Imagination during this time period can be extreme. Prepare your child ahead of time by discussing that people are going to be dressing up and pretending. Let them wear their costume before Halloween and get used to it. Try to avoid scary masks and reassure them that you, as their parent or caregiver will protect them. Trick-or-treat before dark and remind them that everyone is pretending to help assure them they are safe. Noisy and dark areas or parties may over-stimulate young children, so be cautious and look for signs of anxiety. Be sure to discuss the possible traffic, both vehicles and people, how to approach houses and what to say. A parent or responsible adult needs to accompany this age group.
5-8 years of age
Children begin to tell the difference between rational and irrational fears, i.e. witches vs. a dismantled body. Some children begin to enjoy the “scare” while others do not – be respectful if your child becomes scared – remove them from the area and assure them that it’s pretend and you will keep them safe.
It’s also important to choose movies and television shows wisely. Entertainment with irrational characters (witches, ghosts) are less likely to create fear during these years of development. Understand that any child of this age may become scared and vulnerable to nightmares. Be patient and if you see signs of fear, or if they talk about being afraid later, listen and be understanding.
8-11 years of age
These years allow additional development of rational/irrational fears but also social fears (i.e. anxiety, fitting in, being accepted). Acting in a particular way to be accepted by a peer group can encourage some children to behave in a manner not appropriate, or not in alignment your family’s ways of treating other people. At times younger children can fall victim to spooky tricks and behavior. Remind them of unintended consequences and the importance of respecting the feelings of and property of others.
Remember, with a little awareness, parents and caregivers can help to make Halloween safe and fun for all!